Folks, I know u wont agree with me on this one but I have to continue saying it anyway. As far as Im concern it is a wrong move to go tell ur friends everytime u have a problem with ur partner. Friend will just laugh at u, or joke about ur problem, or say sorry my friend but immediately after u left they start gossiping about it, or they share with other people with the motion promise u wont tell anyone and before u know it ur private issues will be public to the whole community, ur partner will be a laughing stock and people will point fingers everytime s/he passes. That means u will have multiple problems instead of finding a solution to ur problem. I think it is much better to share ur problems with a stranger, someone who doesnt have anything for or against u, or share it with someone u know but u trust to come up with a solution if not an advice, or share it with someone close to u but much older which is someone who could guide u to the right direction. Friends and siblings will simple say just leave ur partner because they have their own assumptions on what actually caused the problem though they know nothing about ur partner at all. Each and every relationship has its ups and downs, u will run to ur friends once u come across the downs and they will make it their own, but when things go well in ur relationship it doesnt mean they forgot the downs. They will always be there to remind u why u shouldnt be with ur partner. Thats friends for u! I always say, the best person to discuss ur relationship problems with, is ur partner. Nothing beats communication. #GawHZ
Posted on: Fri, 12 Dec 2014 07:30:59 +0000
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