Free advice: If not saying hello is a real burden on you, then you need to get some perspective. Its really not that hard to not talk to strangers on the street. Ive done it a million times. Heres how: 1. See the person walking down the street. 2. Keep walking. 3. Dont say anything to them. Its that easy! I know thats a great burden on you, but as this woman explains, understanding why its better not to will make a lot of women less stressed out. But what if you want to cheer a woman stranger up who looks sad, you may be asking yourself? The best way to help her is to not make her day worse by being guy #343 to think that talking to her will help. Look I get it. You think that surely a stranger just saying hello will brighten their day. You are the definition of charming and kind. Surely it will make their day brighter. And yet, no. Just control your primal innocent urge to say hi. You totally mean well. I get it. Its not about you though. You have a 1 in 10 chance of it working and a 9 in 10 chance of making her more uncomfortable. And that 1 in 10 chance may just be her trying to placate you so youll leave her alone. So really, the chance that it will actually brighten her day has about the same odds as winning the the lottery while getting struck by lightning and being eaten by a shark all at the same time. So you may be asking, How am I supposed to meet women, then? And the answer is, by doing things that dont creep them out. Maybe get to know someone on a personal level over time with multiple interactions that arent unwanted (at work, at a bar you both frequent, airplane buddies, I have no clue). And then, as you become familiar with each other, youll see more of her than just her physical appearance that provoked you to be interested in the first place. And then she wont get the vibe that you arbitrarily selected her based on no information about her actual personality, and think you are actually interested in her as a person and not just as an object, and then you end up dating, and getting serious and buying Ikea together and everyone will win. So should you say hello? No, no you shouldnt. You are welcome.
Posted on: Tue, 11 Nov 2014 16:32:33 +0000
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