GUYS Guys go for girls that play hard to get to the extent they dont notice the ladies by the side begging for their attention. You see them as disturbances because they are not putting up a fight, they are offering you themselves without struggles. I too am guilty of this. The other girl will slam the door at your face, flirt with other guys and even insult you but you keep going back because you see her as a challenge. We need to stop giving attentions to those who dont give them back and occupy ourselves with making those that have our time never regret doing so. In a world where everybody minds his business you shouldnt afford to lose the few that are genuinely interested in you. Guys learn how to stop jumping fences for ladies that can not cross gutters for you. Give attention to those that deserve it. LADIES Weve noticed that a lot of ladies fall a lot for the wrong guys. Sometimes these guys dont disguise their personality. They show off themselves as play boys and flirts but you see a lot of ladies dating and really taking them seriously in anticipation of changing them. Be it a hunger for being the source of his salvation or for bragging rights to tell the world you changed him, you are just hurting yourself. You see lots of guys with good intentions but you want them just as friends while you constantly hurt yourself. You meet a nice guy but you say hes just like a brother but you fall for a player and cry that all men are the same. Appreciate those that appreciate you, take seriously those that take you seriously. You deserve the best, dont walk a mile for a guy that cant take a step for you.
Posted on: Thu, 17 Oct 2013 05:53:13 +0000