Haha this is so hilarious even though comedy, there seems to be some truth in it. I am sure there is some sort of chart that many guys follow, probably girls have one too. Maybe more related to criteria they are looking for at certain stages in their lives and not level of craziness. I have discovered that when some guys, probably girls too are not ready to settle and commit, they choose partners who they do not see a future with as they are not suitable marriage material for whatever reason. Possibly because they do not have strong ethics and morals and feel they can play around with them, they may not have the qualities they are looking for as a marriage partner, do not have much in common, are not in the same category as them work wise, are not financially well off, are too old for them or have certain health issues and so forth. For some reason they feel its O.K to mess around and string innocent people along who believe they are sincere and have hopes of a future together, however they are what is known as fillers or back burners until such a time when they are ready to settle and find what they have been looking for. They sneakily keep their options open and deceitfully have interest for others behind that persons back. Even to the point of keeping others hanging whilst they decide who they want to be with and expressing their feelings and interest for another who knows nothing about their current relationship. They may try to establish a relationship whilst in another relationship, or keeping her/him hanging on until they can break off the other relationship. They could be uncertain and keep a few hanging on so they can decide but without any of them knowing whats going on. They may not cheat physically but if tempted they may take the opportunity, however cheating does not only include physical. It also included words and feelings expressed to another, trying to get with someone else through written and verbal communication and flirting with someone they are interested in for relationship behind a partners back. This is still being unfaithful and if one doesnt think so it is because they are the one doing it and not the one who has received this treatment. Think about it, if you see someone as your destiny partner who you love, care for and desire to spend the rest of your life with, a person who you trust and believe to be honourable, honest, true, sincere, genuine, trustworthy and faithful then supposing they did the same? Just suppose, what would you then think of them especially if you have chosen that person because of their high values, ethics and principles and you saw them as marriage material. How would you feel towards them, would you trust them, would you still want to be with them? Would you not feel hurt, fooled, cheated and betrayed if they did this behind your back and want an explanation? Or do you think this behaviour and dishonesty is O.K? Do you not think they have a right to seek answers and want an apology for the pain caused. Well if you would not like such treatment, it is not right to do it unto others then blame them for being really hurt and upset with you. I am collecting info for a book on relationships and the psychological factors involved.
Posted on: Thu, 31 Jul 2014 23:56:46 +0000
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