Heres a snippet from my latest blog post (I know its been too long sorry!) called : What you dating for? Time to be honest about your relationship. To read the whole post, visit my blog at realizms.tumblr 11. It is better to be alone than lonely in someone else’s arms. The thought of being alone sometimes makes us afraid to get out of unhealthy relationships. If you can’t be happy on your own however, you will never be able to be happy with someone else, not truly. We look to people to unrealistically fill a void that we have in our lives, be it because our families aren’t with us, our friends don’t understand us, or we just feel like we don’t fit in. We turn to relationships as a way to cope, hoping that we will feel a sense of fulfillment when we meet our life partner. We have forgotten that we need to deal with ourselves before we can deal with anyone else. If you depend on another person to make you happy, as soon as that person is gone, we lose meaning in our lives. Also, depending on someone to make you happy is unfair on them. They are not there to fix you or make all your problems go away. They are there to support you, to be there with you, to help you grow. Again, this has to be a two way street. We all have issues, we’ve all had hard lives and we believe that no one will ever understand us. How can your partner understand you if you don’t understand yourself first? Don’t jump into a relationship because you’re lonely. Sometimes being with someone who doesn’t really understand is more lonely than being on your own. Just because they are there physically doesn’t mean that you are getting the emotional support that you need. Deal with yourself, then find someone who can understand who you are, because you can explain it to them.
Posted on: Fri, 27 Jun 2014 04:38:17 +0000
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