How many of you have ever had a little garden in the yard... Maybe you planted beans, or tomatoes... Or lettuce or carrots... Well, lets say you planted tomatoes... And if for some reason, your tomatoes arent growing well, you don’t blame the tomatoes, do you? No, of course not... You look into the reasons they arent doing well. I mean, they may need fertilizer, or more water, or less sun. But you never blame the tomatoes. Yet if we have problems with our friends or our family, isnt it funny how we blame the other person.... But if we know how to take care of them, they will grow well, like our tomatoes. Blaming has no positive effect at all, nor does trying to persuade using reason and arguments. Thats just my experience anyway... No blame, no reasoning, no argument, just understanding. I believe that if you understand, and you show that you understand, you can love, and the situation will change. Peace, love & understanding
Posted on: Mon, 12 May 2014 16:49:28 +0000
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