Im going to step up on my proverbial soapbox for just a sec to share some thoughts swirling around my brain this evening after a conversation with a friend today who in her 30s is experiencing bullying at its finest from other women in their 30s & 40s. Really, ladies?? What Im about to spew out into words may be interpreted as ugly and that it lacks love for others, but I really feel the need to say it! Feel free to back out now if you dont want to hear my incoherent ramblings. Lol Sooooo here goes.... You seriously need to check yourself if you have made it your mission in life to make someone elses life miserable by exposing their wrongdoings to everyone you can talk to. It only shows the rest of the world just how miserable you are on the inside. Its not attractive no matter how you spin it. Are you constantly seeking new ways and words to tear someone down? Are you absolutely rejecting forgiveness of others to show the world the faults of others? What on earth do you get out of tearing someone else down?? It absolutely DOES NOT matter what someone has done to you or others if you are behaving in this way because you have lowered yourself to what you so proclaim to detest...Ugly, ugly behavior. As women, we need to lift each other up. We need to pray for each other and hold each other accountable. We all stumble. We all fall. We all need to help each other back up. I will lift up in prayer those who struggle with so much pain in their spirits that they feel so empowered to rip others apart. Please, just stop it!! This isnt high school anymore!! Ugh!! BE NICE! BE KIND!! Ill leave you with parting words that I say to my boys every morning when I drop them off at school, Show love and kindness in everything you do, and help someone today. Ok, Im done! *stepping down now to go watch the Hogs play*
Posted on: Sat, 20 Sep 2014 22:53:10 +0000