Ive experieneced so much when it comes to realtionships, if there is one thing i can tell any girl. It would be to leave, dont settle for less. If your use to him leaving and coming back whenever he wants too. Or Use to him cheating and lying, leave. I can promise you now, he wont change. (Hell never change..Truth is, one day he will. But it wont be for you..) I know its hard to beleieve because you wanna think everytime will be different, and convince yourself he will change. Or maybe one day he will. Or maybe next time. But In all honesty your setting yourself up for disappointment again, because he wouldnt treat you the way he has or does. Thinking maybe one day hell really change for you, no. he knows hes use to disappointing you. And knows your still gonna stay around. And Hell continue to do it, And hell allow you too stay, untill he officially doesnt care for your beings to be around at all. One day he will find someone else, and leave you. Not allowing you to stick around anymore. Or be in his life at all. Civil or not. I know, ive been through it. For 2 and a half years. With whom i thought i could call my bestfriend too, But theres just some things you have to open your mind up to and accept and realize.. Its gonna hurt, its gonna hurt because you never thought thered actually be an end to all the shit youve put up and dealt with for so long, thinking hed care because you did.. no, But the true blessing we do have, is to remember. Thats why we holdon and cherish memories. Wether we look back and smile, cry, get angry. Or happy. Just remember there is always happiness and love in your future again, and youll be happier than you ever thought you were before. I promise. Please dont ever settle for less because you love him, ask yourself, if he really loves you? He Might care for you, but he doesnt love you.. i never thought id be giving advice that everyone always gave me, but i am. Lol and its weird. But its the truth!
Posted on: Sun, 16 Nov 2014 17:56:02 +0000