I’m sick and tired of hearing women utter the same played out phrases about how altruistic and beautiful a woman’s love is, followed by some corny over-generalized statement which undermines a man’s love and presents it something FAR less enriching than what a woman can provide. In fact, when these people refer to a woman’s love, there are MANY grand illustrations made to show how much a man can benefit from it, but when we talk about a man’s love, the conversation hovers around whether or not he’ll sustain it, and how and when will he break her heart. The truth is, a lot of women present how men love women as being less than how women love men because they misunderstand and misrepresent the depths of a real man’s real love. This is why women tell other women things like “always make sure your man loves you a little more than you love him” because it attempts to support the belief that us men are UNABLE to love as strong as women if all things are equal – so women should find a situation that’s UNEQUAL because it will level out – which is STUPID. Honestly, I’m sick and tired of women dating men who don’t TRULY love them, and then having those same women turn around and try to give advice to other women as if they KNOW what it means to handle and experience a real man’s real love. Man please, if you were in a relationship and a dude smashed your sister and got her pregnant, I DON’T want to hear that you loved him more than he loved you – I want YOU to admit that dude didn’t really LOVE you at all. What I have found is that women tend to love the IDEA of love a lot more than men do. As much as we may think it’s cool, women tend to value experiencing love a little more than men do. In fact, when men are talking amongst other men, it’s almost UNCOOL to anticipate falling in love one day. So when a man falls in love with a woman, it’s typically NOT built on flowery, preconceived notions about how lifelong happiness and a squirtasticly amazing married life, but more so about how great of a woman he has. Because men just don’t simply LOVE love, when a man falls in love with a woman, he’s willing to do damn near anything he can for her based solely on HER being. When a man REALLY loves a woman, he has her back and supports her through the rough times, he frequently makes personal sacrifices for the betterment of their relationship, he does whatever he must to ensure her happiness and he relishes the opportunities where he can protect and provide for her. When a man loves a woman, it can be just as deep and passionate as when a woman loves a man. So when you start talking about cheating men, men who neglect their women and dudes who belittle their relationships, we need to make a clear delineation between men who are really in LOVE and men who are in “Like”, “Lust” or “Like you a Lot”.
Posted on: Sat, 27 Sep 2014 15:45:44 +0000
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