Just because one person rejects you doesn’t mean you need to reject yourself. -- SKYROCK PINKROSE Agreed. Love makes you laugh, love makes you cry. A heart, when broken, gives us the most traumatic moments in life, this was me -- its never been easy. When love leaves you, your little world seems to be shattered and abandoned and you are crashed by feelings of despair. In life, theres many things that we have to learn to let go. We have to let go of situations, things, memories, the person and even ourselves. Its easy to form an attachment to someone. When youve formed an attachment to that person, it can be a very painful experience and feeling when you realized that its time to let go. Even the mere thought of not having that person in your life anymore just squeezes your heart in pain. We hurt so much because we feel like we have lost a part of ourselves. If we have loved much, we must have given much also, and when everythings over, we feel as though we have lost everything. Sometimes there is no easy way out. You just have to grin and bear it. Sometimes the only escape route is to go straight through the flames, just brace yourself and bite your lip. There comes a point when the damage is too much and no matter how good it once was, it can’t sustain you. You have to save yourself knowing all the while it will hurt like hell. With so much struggles in my past relationship, I learned that I have to try your best to move ahead. If you find yourself in love with a person who does not love you, don’t spend your time chasing someone who doesn’t want to be caught. If they are right for you, they won’t need chasing. Be gentle with yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didnt choose to rest in the other persons heart. If love let you go, or you had to let love go, then it’s because there is more love out there for you with someone else. Have faith, and know that everything happens for a reason. Think of it this way -- You’re just one broken heart closer to happily ever after. So instead of looking at your situation like its the end of the world, what if you saw it as one step further in the direction to what you truly deserve? We have more to learn, more to experience, and more loving to do in this lifetime. And yes, no one can avoid the pain of a broken heart, just give space to let your feelings pour out. Tears initiate the process of healing and with time. One day you’ll look back on some of your saddest days and know that it was all for good reason. Remember, as a rose cant live without the rain so a heart cant love without risk of pain.
Posted on: Sat, 16 Aug 2014 00:39:41 +0000