Kwabo balahlekelwe ngamathemba ndifuna nahlanje ukuninika ithemba ngencwadi yobomi bam In 1996 I ws raped by the principal of my school at age of 16....ndandicinga ubomi buphelile kuba ndandiyinto yohlekisa ndisuka kwikhaya eliphantsi abazali bam zange babonisa support kum into abayenzayo kukufuna imali engange R10.000 kulo tishala bengakhange bandixelele ngesosigqibo. 1999 ndandibhala I matric zange ndiyiphumelele I decided to go nd look for a job ngo year 2000 ndaya egcuwa ndaqeshwa ngu sisi othile uba ndimthengisele I Banana estandin by then a bunch ws R2 ndayenza ke lonto ndipeya R60 per week for 3 months ngo april I got another job as a domestic worker ezithulele egcuwa ndipeya R350 per month then ndimane ndibuyela ekhaya after 2months yayininzi ke lo mali kum kuba ndandisamkela imeko endandikuyo, kuthe ngo october walonyana ndadibana notata waselalini yam e taxin egodukayo ndiphethe eninzi yona I grocer wathi kum lo tata mntanam unentsebenzo abazali bakho mabakuyeke usebenze kuba batya ngawe ndabuza batya ntoni? Wathi ngela xesha wawu dlwengulwe yila tishala bafumana I R10000 ndothuka andakholelwa ukuba ingaba ngabazali bam abo banokwenza lonto. Zange ndikwazi ubabuza kuba ndandisoyika isabhokwe nozivusela amanxeba ndathula ndahlala nayo kum.... Kuthe ngo 2001 ndadibana no sisi wase komani owayesebenza e clinic yaselalini yam wathi udinga umntu womgcinela umzi wakhe ekomani ndathi ndingaluncedo inene ndaya ekomani ndasebenza kulomzi ndipeya le R350.... Ndithe ndikulomzi ndafunwa Yindoda eyayi renter kwalapha kuba wayemdala ubhuti lo ndamxela ku mama lo walo mzi... Yathi impendulo ka mama walapho subamuncu ntombazana ingaba ufuna ubomi bakho buphelele kulama kitch uyofa usokola nantsi indoda... Nam zange ndiphozise maseko kuba ndandifuna ukuphuma kule ntsokolo... Lwazenzekela ke uthando sendiphakathi inene ubomi bam batshintsha...2002 I went back to school at ikhala college to finish my matric inene ndaphuma naso I certificate esiphucukileyo noko...kulo nyaka njalo ths man bought me a house kwezinye ze suburbs zase komani kumnandi wethu...2004 zajika izinto yathi indoda ndidlisiwe xa ndiphefumla ndiyayitsarha ngephunga endilikhupha ngomlomo to the point tht ikhohlele xa ndithetha ndikufuphi nayo, kwakusa ndihleli inyembezi zingapheli ndicinga ubuyela ema kitchen...ndawahamba amaxhwele kusithwa ndifakelwe isichitho...yanqaba imali kuba ndandiyilinganiselwa ngk kuba akusekho konwaba nase bedin....ndAbuyela back ekuthengiseni estandin for nigerians ndakwazi ukuthenga ukutya Apha endlini ndazivulela ispaza shop...2005 I decided to go back eskolweni e monty ndenza human resource mgt wayendinika ke imali kuba ye fees, nam ndafumana bussary after 1st year yam...2007 we got married nevumba elo lam kodwa 2008 uphele ndingasalali nomyeni wam kuba wathi akakwazi kunyamezela liyamoyisa...ndaphila obo bomi ke kude kube ngoku its been 7 yrs now...after ndilotyolwe ndafumana ithuba lobabuza abazali bam nge mali abayifumana ku tishala inene zange baphike nto, ndakhala ndathula kuba ndandidanile worce indlela endandiphethwe ngayo after le rape ngathi bendimcelile utishala...ndahlala 2 yrs ndingagoduki ndinenzodo but la fika ilizwi elithi mandibaxolele mhlawumbi babesenziwa kuxakwa nabo, myb if babevule I case ngewayi wina u tishala kuba wayezofuna amagqwetha sibe ekhaya singenamali yamagqwetha so ndazixolisa ngelitshoyo ndaqhuba ubomi... Ungalibali ke akukho mntana kulo mtshato umyeni wam ngoka 1954 mna 1980 nd ndinaye umntwana endamfumana 1999... Uthe umyeni wam uze afumane umntwana wathandana nomtwana wase cala ka 1986 endandimchole erankin yase mdantsane ngobusuku ndamzisa apha endlini it was 2009 kanty unontomby ufuna ukukhupha mna apha kungene yena kuba ke ndingoka Thixo zange kube njalo...,ndive ngo 2012 ukuba she is preg by my husband ndathi kulungile engazange wamithisa nje ukwazile kuye...2010 I becm a volunteer at South african police service kungekho ne cent endiyifumanayo ndihamba ngenyawo umyeni wam angathi akandiboni emotweni yakhe ndandimane ukuthi nam ndoze ndibenayo... 2012 jan ndaqeshwa as human resource clerk kwamnandi kum kuba ndandingenayo ne bed indlu yayintle ngaphandle kuba yenziwe nge face brick... Zonyuselwa clerk 2013 frm level 3 - 5 hai ke ndawubetha wacwebezela umzi wam...andifuni kuzenza msulwa ke nam kwaye kwanyanzeleka ndizithi soka kuba ndimncinci inkanuko zomzimba zona andingezifezi...u cn judge me if uyakwazi...kuzo zonke ezonto zandehlelayo zange ndimlibale uthixo naselalini yam ndiyi role model coz yonke into eyenzekayo nesazokwenzeka ebomini bam yiplan ka Thixo... Utishala u Thotywa my rapist wagwetywa ubomi e jail for ubulala amaxhegwazana ngenxa esithi ayathakatha...caba kukho mntu uthile owaya epolice station to report rape yam so kwavuka nezonto...
Posted on: Thu, 31 Jul 2014 21:47:39 +0000
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