Lemme key you Inexperienced guys think if he talks for hours on a phone with a girl, he will become more boyfriend material to her. Very wrong! The opposite will actually be occurring and shell lose respect and interest for you. Why? Because you would become too available, too easy and you signal you have no life. If a guy has value, his time has value too -- which means he doesnt waste it spending the next three hours on the phone. People value something when its rare. If you give time too freely, then youre not valuable. Often times, girls call guys for idle chatter when shes bored. If you think it means she likes you, try this experiment. Call her for idle chatter in return. I bet most of the time, she wouldnt want to talk when you need it. Or shell chat a few minutes and want to hang up. Thats because (duh!!!) she doesnt really like you. She calls you for idle chatter only because youve been identified as the schmuck willing to entertain her whenever shes bored. Dont get me wrong, if something bad happened, you want to be there on the phone. Otherwise, never do a phone marathon session with her. Never. And if she calls, dont always pick up or return her calls. If you do pick up, talk for 10 minutes max and make sure youre the one who ends the conversation. Long talks are reserved for person-to-person encounters.
Posted on: Sun, 27 Jul 2014 22:18:07 +0000
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