[email protected] situation Dear Sanyufm, I am concerned over his apparent lack of ambition. I am engaged to be married next three months. My fiance has a lot of wonderful qualities, and I love him very much. However, I am very concerned about how well he and I will fare financially and even more concerned about how little hes done so far to give us a better chance starting off. He does Computer work, so there is a lot of potential there for him to make a good salary, but he is still on the entry level end of it. He has to start earning certifications to increase his marketability and earning potential and hes been studying for them for at least the past year, but the date to take the test keeps getting pushed back. First, he was saying April, then May, etc-its now July. He will be moving to where I live (very expensive area) and he has two kids he will need to send child support to. I also have a child. I work a full time job and my fiance is banking on me working for us to be financially stable. I dont have a problem with that entirely since I have always worked (other than a couple years after my son was born) but I dont like feeling like he cant support all of us if need be-for example, Id like to be a stay at home mom for at least a couple years if we have a child together. I come from a traditional upbringing where the husband/father takes care of the family and the fact that he cannot bugs me. It bugs me even more that I keep stressing what we are up against, yet, it doesnt seem to push him to start taking the exams and earning his certifications. What can I do? Im trying not to nag-but nothing I seem to say pushes him to get a move on. S.T
Posted on: Fri, 11 Jul 2014 08:19:36 +0000
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