MUTUAL EMPTINESS AS AN ATTRACTION When two people in this emotional state meet, they are readily drawn to the pursuit and all the positive attention associated with the courting stage. The mutual attention begins to address and relieve their emptiness, and that relief advances the relationship. Both people are seeking approval and assurance in the relationship and work very hard to please each other. This communicates that the other is valued. Feeling valued by someone you value begins to soothe negative emotions of worthlessness or feeling unworthy to be loved. This soothing is a powerful attraction to advance the relationship. During courtship, this “positive energy” keeps them together and leads to longer term commitments. The problem comes when it is revealed that the relationship is running on emptiness. This comes from John Murphy the founder of #RockHouseCenter Biblical counseling. It is a unique form of counseling that guides you in the Biblical process of transformation. Make no mistake, what they counsel is Gods process for changing that results in drawing you closer to Him for the benefit of your life and your marriage. If you are considering counseling or therapy I recommend you speak with the folks at Rock House first. Read more... rockhousecenter/blog/posts/what-happened-to-my-marriage-2/
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