Okay... I need input. I met this man who is a Christian, single dad of one. He lives an hour and a half away. We talked for several days, then he found me on Facebook. He kept pressing me to meet him but I told him I wasnt quite ready to meet him. I wanted to get to know him better. After friending me on Facebook, he stopped talking to me. I finally asked him if I had done or said something to offend him or turn him off. He said no, he was going through a lot and didnt want to drag anyone down the road he was on right now emotionally. I said okay, I understand. Not even a week later, he is telling people on Facebook how captivated he is by this new girl and its looking serious. So, I confronted him. I told him he lied to me by omission. He finally, after ten minutes, admitted he didnt like how guarded I was about meeting him. I told him the Bible says to guard my heart for it is the wellspring of life. He said I wont get anywhere in a relationship by doing that. Was I wrong for not wanting to meet him right away? Is he right? Am I hurting myself by holding back some and taking it slow? I thought I was being wise. My heart says that if he wasnt willing to allow me that time, he wasnt willing to put forth the right amount of effort. When I said that, he returned with the opinion women should be more active in chasing men and stop expecting men to do all the work. I feel confused by this... like I took all my experience and applied it to this situation, slowed down and walked with caution, and yet again I feel like Im being told Im all wrong. Thankful for WOW because it gives me peace to know God sees me as all right. But if Ive wronged him, I will apologize, but I need outside perspective.
Posted on: Sat, 05 Apr 2014 19:01:44 +0000
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