RISE AND MOVE ON!!! How to handle Failure: *Know and Accept that it is a Common thing for all humans to go thru one way or another in their life time *Know that it doesnt say a thing about you as a person(ie your Intellect) , it only shows that you may have made choices and used inappropriate methods in tackling the challenge at hand. * Even the Best of the Best have once/many times failed and still gonna fail in life *Every excellent performance ever rendered in life was once practiced and failed before it was perfected and the performer never gave up while trying and failing. * Failing or Succeeding doesnt mean a person is Intelligent/Stupid/less intelligent. All Intelligentpeople sometimes make mistakes and fail and they dont stop thinking that they are intelligent * Dont be concerned about critics; after all even if you succeeded; they would hypocritically celebrate you/still would find faults! They dont know what you went thru and other challenges you faced while studying in the course of the year. *Look back and celebrate your previous successes and pat yourself and believe that you still can make it *Understand that it is just a temporary thing not a permanent one *F.A.I.L:Find Another Interesting(Important) Lesson: every failure has an interesting and important lesson to show us: see one and learn * You must also take it positive: may be you fail bcos you re delayed for a reason; greater things are being prepared for you: eg you were not going to have money to study/it was full at the tertiary and eventually you were going to stay the whole year doing nothing. So at least you will be kept busy studying again. *Love yourself and speak positively every minute about your potential. * Thank God always even when you down; He still has confidence in you and wanna take you to another level still *Visit sites where they will tell you how most victories were covered and preceded by failure: how many times Thomas Edison;Coleen Saunders;Henry Ford; Michael Jordan and many more who are Successful and celebrated failed in their journey to Success! *U also failed many times when you tried to stand up and walked when you were a baby and you never gave up; instead it motivated you more! So it is not new!! * Yes it depends on how you view it; if you view it with the eyes of the baby and successful people you will endure; enjoy and be motivated by every failure bcos you know that it works good for you: every failure is an opportunity to do better. * No matter how much you fail; if you are determined and learn from every failure you will eventually succeed!!! * Wipe tears;Plan;Rise and Do it again;this time more clearer and determined;believing and confident in yourself and in success *Know that even next time in some areas of your life u may fail as a learning curve!! Yes we( including holier than thoucritics)all fail somehow everyday but never stay and die in failure: So; GET UP AND MOVE ON;IT IS NOT OVER!!!
Posted on: Tue, 06 Jan 2015 07:40:08 +0000
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