***Reader Needs Advice*** NO BASHING!!! Me and my husband have been married for twenty two years with five children and seven grandchildren. He is sixty three years old and works in the bank. He have lots of friends, most of which seems to be younger women that he sometimes pick up at their home and drives them to work. I am concerned that this practice can be questionable and create opportunity for him to get involved with them. I have discussed my concerns with him only for him to tell me that I am jealous. Two weeks ago, I noticed that he is always on his phone and receives calls from this young worker that is twenty two years old. I did not say any thing the first couple of times since he implied that it was work related. The calls increased and he stared texting on a constant basis. I also notice that he placed a past word on his phone. He started working extra hours so one day I decided to follow him and realized that he only picked up one young lady and also waited for her to drop her back home. I immediately approached him and asked if there was something going on with them. I failed to let him know I followed him because I did not want him to think I did not trust him... My question is it appropriate for a man his age to encourage a young girl to be calling and texting him outside of the workplace and is it ok for him to pick and drop her off to work. I already know the answer however he is an old fart and cant seem to see any harm in his conduct. I continued to observe him for another week only to find out that she brings him lunch to work and they sometimes goes to lunch together. I am ashamed at his actions and thinks that he is making a fool of himself. Is she a home wrecker or someone looking for a daddy.
Posted on: Mon, 03 Feb 2014 04:58:20 +0000
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