Reviewing Eleanor Goolds book called How to deal with betrayal the smart way Betrayal is one of the painful thing that can happen to you especially if it is done by someone you trusted, friend, partner, your child, colleague, even your parent. What does it mean to be betrayed/ in simple terms -sold out? ü -means to be let down by someone you trusted. ü means losing your self-esteem and end up not trusting people close to you. Who can betray you? ü-someone you helped in desperate times ü -your child ü -your partner What does the author say about dealing with betrayal in a smart way: ü -You are not alone even Jesus Christ was betrayed ü You have to come to terms with how you feel and find the way to mitigate the damage already done. ü -Stop denying what you see and wish it didnt happen, it hurts most ü -Dont brush it under the carpet (the odour will emit and you will do things that will put you behind bars) ü -Sometimes you need to go away ü -Dont pay revenge and stoop to the level as the one who betrayed you ü - Dont allowing the feeling of revenge, it wont solve anything To someone who dislike/hate people who betrayed him, what is it that this book will do to him and not get destroyed by anger? ü -Dont look for more details, it will hurt you ü -Betrayal is painful, but it will hurt you more if you want to face it trying to get answers that will not heal you and might end up destroying you ü -as painful as it is, take responsibility that you will not allow the person who betrayed you to run your life-move on What lesson is betrayal has? ü -You not only know more about the person who betrayed you but in the midst of everything you get to know yourself better ü -It has happened, stop beating yourself up-this has nothing to do with you. ü.-What you can do, to stop it from happening the next time, dont give allow him to hurt you again Can you forgive the person who betrayed you? ü -Yes. But that doesnt you can just walk away as if nothing has happened -talk about it. ü - Change your perception of how you view the situation. Remember, grudge can destroy your inner you than it does to the person who hurt you.
Posted on: Wed, 30 Oct 2013 04:43:25 +0000
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