Start relying on yourself. Confidence and reliance are at the heart of finding yourself. If you dont have a solid sense of self-worth, youll listen to what others have to say all the time and to be swayed by their insistence on what is wrong, right, and appropriate. Learn to believe in yourself and trust your own feelings. Then, youll come up with a structure to base your new sense of self on. Remember, be patient with yourself and confident in your abilities. Everything will come with time. If you have been victimized in the past, confront these issues. Theyre not going to go away on their own. They might be coloring your approach to daily life, causing you to live up to other peoples expectations instead of your own. Start trusting your own judgment and decision-making processes. Sure, youre going to make mistakes from time to time, but so does everyone else. Its through mistakes that youll find yourself growing, learning, and reaching into your real sense of self. Start taking responsibility for budgeting, household matters, and planning about the future. People who lack a sense of self tend to disregard the details of life with a carefree attitude, believing that things will all sort themselves out. But things dont always sort themselves out. Taking responsibility pulls you back from the precipice and lets you be self-reliant and self-determined, no longer carried along by the waves of fate.
Posted on: Sat, 05 Apr 2014 11:21:52 +0000
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