TO ALL MY HATERS: you know who you are......Whatever you do be woman enough to talk face to face...stop the Kid stuff....special thanks goes out to TIFFANY GOODENOUGH HATERS H- Having A - Anger T- Towards E - Everyone R - Receiving S - Success ----Truth is, people confuse jealousy and envy with hate. People who are envious of us, dont hate us, they want what we have, or want to be where we are. But, if you dont address those that are envious of you, the jealousy can ferment into hate. Haters dont start as haters. Hate has different phases. Opponents grow to enemies, enemies grow to those who have contempt for you, who grow to be the true haters. They impose their self-loathing on others. There is no reason in a true hater. As humans, we make the mistake of thinking we can fix people, that with enough love, even true haters will stop hatin. They wont. True haters are sick people. Adolf Hitler was a true hater. There was no changing Hitler, he was beyond fixing. How do you define a hater? List qualities of a friend. Look at that list. Haters wont possess the qualities you seek out in people. Sometimes we have friends that are constantly tearing us apart -- no constructive criticism, just negativity. Make that list, see if these so-called friends have any of the qualities youd want a friend to have. Sometimes we confuse people who are around us, as friends. Friends dont hate, they honestly critique. Check yourself, dont surround yourself with haters. The best way to tell a hater is: look at how they treat others and look at their actions. Dont think you are special. If they tear down and disrespect people they consider friends, and then smile in their faces when they come around, dont deceive yourself as though they wont be the same with you. I think the hardest thing for us as humans to do is accept people for exactly who they are. As Maya Angelou said, When someone shows you their true colors, believe them. Hatred ultimately destroys the hater. Dont get tricked into thinking that you have to carry the burden of hate. The psychology of a hater is to impose their self-hate on others. Its not as much about you as it is about them. Dont take hate personally, because at the end of the day -- it just isnt. Dont look at hate as a reflection of yourself and your work, but dont use it as a crutch either. Take time to reflect and critique yourself and surround yourself with others who are honest enough to do the same. Now go get you some haters!
Posted on: Fri, 29 Nov 2013 21:50:03 +0000
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