Temper Tantrums Every parent has had those maddening moments when a toddler suddenly screams, kicks, or drops to the floor. Usually a tantrum is an expression of frustration or disappointment when a child is too young to put feelings into words. As children grow they can be taught other appropriate ways to handle their feelings. Prevention: Though you can never prevent all problems, you can reduce the likelihood of tantrums. -Talk to your child about changes or special events. -Explain your expectations when going out. -Give warnings ahead of time before changing activities (going to bed or coming inside). -Be sensitive to your child’s feelings. -Be sure your child gets enough rest and exercise. During a temper tantrum: -Stay calm! -Try not to show any expression or strong response to the situation. If you are at home, turn away, or leave the room for a few moments (if your child is not hurting him/herself or others). Stay within earshot. -Use words to express your child’s feelings and suggest a self-calming routine. Example: “I know you’re really angry that ________________. Maybe you would like to hold your favorite bear for a while until you feel calm again.” -Use time out if necessary. This separation from the activity should be brief – about one minute per year of your child’s age. -If necessary, physically hold/restrain your child to prevent injury saying something like: “I know you’re angry, but I will not let you hurt yourself or others.” -If the tantrum occurs in a public place, pick up your child and carry him/her to a private area or to the car. Make it clear you will not go back until he/she is calm. Remember: Never give in to a tantrum!
Posted on: Sat, 23 Aug 2014 11:24:27 +0000
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