This goes for any type of relationship. Whether family, friends or partner, it doesnt matter. We settle for what we think we deserve, when we are all so much better than that. Dont let anyone feel comfortable enough to know that youre always gonna come back to them. Because when you do that, they know theyll always have you and they will continue to treat you the same. You have to stop ignoring the REDFLAGS that have been waving in your face. Red flags arent there for no reason. Theyre there to open your eyes up to something that you may have been blind to. Theyre there to prevent your hurt, but signs cant save you if you chose to ignore them. Dont give in to the misguided. Why are apologies giving every other week? Why are you questioning if its REAL every other day and allow their blame to be put on you? You arent insecure, so dont let their guilty conscience make you feel like youre crazy, tripping or overreacting. Those RED FLAGS are letting you know something isnt right. Those red flags are letting you know something isnt real and you CAN prevent this. You chose the way to view them and the amount of affect they have on your life. The more you ignore them, the more youre saying I am okay with you not treating me with respect. Someone who appreciates you would never put themselves in a position to lose you. Either they dont care enough about you or they know you dont care enough about yourself to know you deserve better. Always know youre own worth. You cant create somebody to change. As bad as you want them to be loyal and be there for you with the proper respect, you continuing to put up with their disrespect is not going to change that and make them loyal. As much as you want them not to abuse your trust, you accepting apology after apology is not going to make them trustworthy and will give them the okay to keep doing it. You never have to chase what wants to stay and what wants to stay needs to appreciate you. Sometimes you have to love someone from a distance. Warning comes before destruction. You dont need to keep setting yourself up for disappointment. Sometimes past relationships dont belong in the new season. In order to move up there is some things you have to be willing to give. So when you see the REDFLAGS, love yourself enough to walk away before your heart is destroyed. There is plenty of people that care about you, who dont want to see you stuck in a cycle of abuse or manipulation. The only thing you can do is pull yourself out before that person becomes you. You are better than all of this and you have all the support in the world to do so. You got this girl
Posted on: Thu, 03 Apr 2014 16:57:44 +0000
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