When we are hurting we feel a hole in our Self where we need to grow. Those holes will get triggered in every way and from every angle until they are healed, so do not ignore them and pass them off as if they will somehow heal themselves. They will not. You have to be open to looking at them. Rumi says the light enters where the wound is. If you ignore and continue to blame others for your feelings then you cannot heal and you destroy the relationships in your life. Look at where you are wounded. Accept it. Sit with it. Marinate in it and see how it paralyzes you from loving well, giving fully and essentially puts limits on everything you think, feel and do in life. If there is a wound, you have already survived it, so why keep it open and alive all out of not wanting to accept it and see the reality of how it damages everything you do. Love yourself. Look at yourself. Own your stuff and heal your life. Is it sometimes hard and painful work to do? Yes, but if you dont do it your life will be on a chronic drip of a lack of satisfaction. If you do the work you will have some acute pain, but you will heal yourself and your life will change. When we heal our wounds we develop resilience, wisdom, emotional intelligence and self-awareness. If you heal your wounds you go from having holes to feeling whole. Have a beautiful Monday !!
Posted on: Mon, 18 Aug 2014 11:00:00 +0000
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