this is gonna be a lil bit long...but i just wanna get this off me chest lol: a relationship to me isnt about the way someone looks, what they have or their status... But its about how you feel about that person and how that particular person makes you feel. When someone tells you they love you, theyre basically telling you, i know youre not perfect and even though you have a rough past, its not gonna change how I feel about you. They dont care about what youve done or who you were but who and what youve become now. Ive heard many girls say, im not the one youre looking for/im damaged goods/its not a good idea feeling this way etc but in all honesty: who are you to tell a guy what to feel and what is right or wrong? There are good guys out there; plenty of them but some of you wont be happy because youre making them suffer for your exs mistake. You gotta understand that not all guys on this earth are out to get you. I mean yeah sure, girls like bad boys; reason being: they have swag/they are more fun/they do whatever they want etc and that makes good guys boring... But dont the same bad boys ignore your apps? Treat you like shit? Play you and doesnt make you a priority etc? While the good guy gives you attention, reassurance that hell never hurt you and so much more, you wont give him a chance cause the bad boy did you beans... Trust your heart, not your mind: for your mind only sees what it wants to see and only the heart can read the lines in between. But girls, you have to understand that TRUST and COMMUNICATION are the very foundation of relationships. If you like the guy, stop talking to your ex or posting weird stuff and all. Dont change yourself but change how you do things because you are now a team. Dont look for love...(trust me) let it find you. Whenever you look, you just get disappointment and heartbreaks for tryna be happ. God has a plan for everyone and use this time to find yourself and figure out what sorta guy you really want and need. Swag doesnt pay bills ka so the bf who has 5000 friends but doesnt go to school or uni and is always high and shit, musiye lol #dropsthemicandwalksaway
Posted on: Thu, 28 Nov 2013 17:19:20 +0000
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